Sometimes we hold onto people, and other things in our life so tightly making it very difficult to let go. We believe we are in control only to wake up to feelings of despair, pain and hopelessness.
Just imagine having a tug of war, with you holding onto a rope as tight as you can on one end and the stresses in your life on the other. Who do you think will win that war? At some point, you have to learn to let go. Otherwise the struggles you are carrying will take you down to a life of misery.
Have you figured out what makes you really feel alive? Feeling alive is about feeling alert, active and passionate about the life you are living. Maybe you are on automatic pilot with everyday life while forgetting what it means to be alive. Feeling alive is not merely just existing.
Sometimes we need to take a step back to refuel and assess the life we are living. We are so inundated with trying to make a living and taking care of our families that we forget what it means to really be alive.
The last couple of years has been a little rough so I can honestly say I was guilty of living a life that lacked any luster. Sometimes life experiences can knock you off your feet. When you finally get up, you realize you’ve been in a zombie like state going through the motions but not really living.
This year, I was fortunate to be able to go on two separate vacations. One in Central America and the other in the Caribbean. I was blessed and for the first time in a very long time, I had more clarity about the life I want to live. Being in a tropical environment and connecting to nature made me feel so alive that I may consider making it my future home.
What makes me feel alive is living a simpler life and shedding all the stuff which we believe will make us happy. I was fortunate to meet several people on my journey who were more contented with a lot less. They are not living in bondage married to things. Their concern is more about surviving, feeling alive while living for today.
What makes you feel alive?
It’s different for everyone and can be as simple as listening to your favorite music. At times laughing at a comedy show. Taking time out to refuel and distress while taking a walk or going on a hike through a forest. Exerting energy makes one feel alive. Maybe you love to go dancing, watching raindrops fall on a rainy day or going out to eat at your favorite restaurants with good friends. I love singing and dancing to my favorite tunes. Whatever your definition of feeling alive, it’s what makes life more enjoyable.
Being alive means literally that you’re not dead. Sometimes we live like the walking dead rather than the undead, consumed by our negative thoughts and emotions about the life we are living. Maybe its time to reflect and consider a life more engaging with what makes us feel more human. What really matters is the quality of life, not the quantity of what we have which weighs us down like an anchor on a boat.
Challenge your thinking and find different ways to feel more alive. This is what living is all about, implementing small changes, taking risks, in order to increase the feeling of being more alive.
What makes you feel alive? Please leave a comment..
Let your mind soak in the sunshine.
Don’t let it chase after the rain.
A sea of negative thoughts which fuels
Sometimes resulting in unfavorable behavior patterns and
creating false beliefs of who you really are.
Dark clouds will come and dark clouds will go but
remember there is always sunshine after the rain.
Hold On, turn it off,
find happy distractions.
Good feelings of love, peace and joy,
pointing you in a new direction.
Express your creativity in unusual ways.
See yourself beyond the darkness,
beyond the pain.
where opportunity resides for change.
Saturate your mind and soak in the sunshine,
create harmony and believe light always
We are all dependent to some degree
There are some people struggling to break free
Picking other people’s pockets to support their lifestyle
Using their money rather than your own meanwhile
You got paid, now you’re broke
Using every penny while you joked
Now you will continue to use other folks
You’re robbing Peter to pay Paul
And you will continue to fall
The things in life which really mattered, you ignored
While living on the edge because you were bored
Now the debt collector is ringing and knocking at your door
But guess what, now you’re poor
Simply put, it’s time to pay up
But now you’re holding an empty cup
Picking other people’s pockets
It’s a crying shame
If you keep up this lifestyle, you’ve lost the game
You see the game of life is a complicated one
So you can’t live your whole life, living on the run.
Learn to be independent so you can be free
It’s a fact of life that will help you to live more carefree.
This is dedicated to people who find it very difficult to accept responsibility for the problems in their life. Blaming others is not the answer. There is always hope if you have the desire to change your circumstances.
Who are we kidding? It’s the same story we tell ourselves over and over again in order to change our behavior, yet it remains the same. Amazingly, without realizing it, our lives are being impacted like a scene out of the Twilight Zone.
This morning, I woke up at my normal time and got ready for work in my usual manner. Side tracked with a minor problem, I left the house a little later than usual. I wish I can say this is the first time but there are everyday distractions which holds my attention every now and then. To my surprise, when I got on the Highway, there was an inordinate amount of traffic due to lane closures for pothole repair.
Beat The Clock
I got off the next exit in order to find a way around the traffic. Time was running out and I was driving a little faster than normal. Feeling stressed and trying to beat the clock, I went through several towns in order to get back on the Highway. Isn’t it funny in life when you’re running late, it never fails, there is always a truck driving very slowly, a person who is in retirement mode on a Sunday morning drive or someone going shopping on their day off in front of you. So while in your mind, you’re in the fast lane at 80 miles an hour, tense with your heart racing to get to work on time, they are driving 20 miles an hour. Ouch!
I pulled into the parking lot and got out of my car running fast as if my life depended on it, I made it just in the nick of time. Out of breath and trying to compose myself, I said, “I never want to do that again.” Really, it’s not the first time and it may not be the last. Life has a way of knocking you off your feet when you least expect it.
How many times do we tell ourselves we will never do the following:
There are so many things in our life which we wish we can change. Unfortunately, if you do something habitually, it becomes a habit which is hard to break. It’s not impossible as long as we are willing to commit to making changes in order to break the cycle. For instance, I could have made a decision to leave my house a little earlier in order to compensate for any problems that may arise. But sometimes its easier to keep doing the same thing over and over again without thinking of the consequences that may result from this pattern of behavior. I believe at this juncture of our lives, its time to break the cycle and commit to making the changes which will make life more bearable.
Have you ever had one of those moments you wish you could change?